To depersonalize someone means to treat them as if they do not matter because their individual feelings and thoughts are not important. She does not feel that the book depersonalises women
de·per·son·al·ize depersonalizes depersonalizing depersonalized in BRIT, also use depersonalise1. To depersonalize a system or a situation means to treat it as if it did not really involve people, or to treat it as if the people involved were not really important. It is true that modern weaponry depersonalised war
make impersonal or present as an object; "Will computers depersonalize human interactions?"; "Pornography objectifies women