Some people slip into a trap of adopting an If it's meant to be, it's meant to be philosophy. Though this sentiment can be reassuring at times, it is not an excuse for passively watching life parade by, especially when you have the ability to do otherwise.
... meant to be. They quarrel and Jim stomps off, but then he finds out through the grapevine ...
... This one comes from pandabearlover13. I mean, a lot of the user names are not meant to be ...