If someone hassles you, they cause problems for you, often by repeatedly telling you or asking you to do something, in an annoying way. Then my husband started hassling me. hassled hassling to annoy someone, especially by asking them many times to do something
A hassle is a situation that is difficult and involves problems, effort, or arguments with people. I don't think it's worth the money or the hassle a day spent travelling, with all the usual hassles at airport check-in
an angry disturbance; "he didn't want to make a fuss"; "they had labor trouble"; "a spot of bother"