You should write in to the agony aunt; she'll sort it out for you.
A person, usually a woman, who publicly gives advice to people with personal problems, especially in a regular magazine or newspaper article
a newspaper columnist who answers questions and offers advice on personal problems to people who write in
(British) advice columnist who has a regular advice feature (in a newspaper, magazine etc.)
An agony aunt is a person who writes a column in a newspaper or magazine in which they reply to readers who have written to them for advice on their personal problems. = advice columnist. someone who writes an agony column