If you are disobedient, you deliberately do not do what someone in authority tells you to do, or what a rule or law says that you should do. Her tone was that of a parent to a disobedient child. obedient. deliberately not doing what you are told to do by your parents, teacher, etc obedient civil disobedience
not obeying or complying with commands of those in authority; "disobedient children" unwilling to submit to authority; "unruly teenagers
Neglecting or refusing to obey; omitting to do what is commanded, or doing what is prohibited; refractory; not observant of duty or rules prescribed by authority; applied to persons and acts